JackJohnson
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- Nov 11, 2008
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Met this perfect girl she is into me and i'm into her. We went on 7 or 8 dates and everything went fine and couldn't be running any more smoother and then I sort of decided to feel the waters a little and expressed to her that i would be interested in starting something a little more serious with her (ie, a possible relationship). Bang out of nowhere she comes out and tells me that she feels as though the direction we are headed is towards a relationship aswell and she's just not ready for a relationship yet. So i'm like "oh thats ok coz i dont really want a relationship right now either but i am open to the idea if it was to eventuate!
Then she turns around and tells me that if i dont want a relationship then why are we both bothering with each other and wasting our time! I then said i was happy getting to know you and seeing where this went and she says there is no point if we arent going to be a couple in the future. Then she says maybe its best we just be friends and i ask her is that what you want?? She replies i dont know! Then what do you want I asked???
She says i'm just confused and would like to try being friends for a few weeks without doing anything physical so we get to know each other on another level and then see how we feel about each other after the 3 weeks.
So i stupidly agreed and then the first weekend we are supposed to be just trying to be friends i hooked up with some random girl and then i get told that i hurt the first girl by going ahead and picking up girls. So obviously i am giving out the message saying to her i only want to b friends she says.
ARRRRRGH what is wrong with women??? Clearly i wanted to be more then just friends and was open to the idea of starting a relationship with this girl but then she effectively shut me down by saying she wasnt able to fit a boyfriend in her life right now. I just wont understand what this girl wants, did i do something wrong and stupid me is still very much into her.
Then she turns around and tells me that if i dont want a relationship then why are we both bothering with each other and wasting our time! I then said i was happy getting to know you and seeing where this went and she says there is no point if we arent going to be a couple in the future. Then she says maybe its best we just be friends and i ask her is that what you want?? She replies i dont know! Then what do you want I asked???
She says i'm just confused and would like to try being friends for a few weeks without doing anything physical so we get to know each other on another level and then see how we feel about each other after the 3 weeks.
So i stupidly agreed and then the first weekend we are supposed to be just trying to be friends i hooked up with some random girl and then i get told that i hurt the first girl by going ahead and picking up girls. So obviously i am giving out the message saying to her i only want to b friends she says.
ARRRRRGH what is wrong with women??? Clearly i wanted to be more then just friends and was open to the idea of starting a relationship with this girl but then she effectively shut me down by saying she wasnt able to fit a boyfriend in her life right now. I just wont understand what this girl wants, did i do something wrong and stupid me is still very much into her.