Ask Her About Herself,
Talk About Your Family.
Play A Game Where You Describe Eachother In One Word.
Talk About Past Relationships.
Things Like That,
Nothing Sexual.
Her. Just her. Everything she does has potential and everything she thinks is really interesting. If she asks about you answer the question and redirect the attention to her. Don't force it. Think like you're a mirror and you want her to see what she wants to see.