All of my girlfriends including my sister only are interested in talking to me when they need to vent, their depressed or they have no one else to talk too. When i try to talk to them when they dont want to vent they dont seem interested in talking to me and with my guy friends in the past they seem like good friends until i discover they had feelings for me the whole time and was only my friend to get with me. Why am i being treated like this?