Why wont my boyfriend have sex with me?

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Lara

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Im 23 years old. Ive been dating a 22 year old guy for about a year now. Hes a virgin so I understand that he may be a little scared to experience sex but we have done everything else. He SUDDENLY stops in the middle of foreplay. When I go down on him and he starts enjoying it he stops me immediately. Whenever I try to ask him why he wont take things further with me he gets mad and irritated.

If he just wants to keep his virginity I would understand completely but why cant he just tell me this instead of getting me turned on and then just stopping in the middle of everything. Oh and once we got in an arguement about it and he said "Its not like I have a problem or anything, I could do it right now, I just dont want to.." And when I ask WHY he doesnt want to he just gets pissed again.
 
Wtf I was gonna tell you to ask till I got to the last part in your story.

My advice is dont even do anything with him for a while, making out is fine, but no foreplay. Let him know how it feels..and if he asks why you dont wanna go down on him or anything..tell him "i could do it right now, I just dont want to" let him know that youre not going to do that unless hes ready to go all the way..its not fair to you if he doesnt have a good reason not to do it.
 
Hi from France ?

It sounds he doesn't to tell you the true Miss !.. He have got a secret, but which ? Talk with him, one day he will tell you .. But be smart for that !

Have a nice day,

Cat.
 
lmao chook u shouldnt admit u have a small penis

give him viagra i bet u he will be begging u for some sex hes just scared and nervious

or he might have a desease that u dont know about and doesnt ant u getting infected
 
it's a control thing... i went through similar stuff with my ex. virgins are crazy... no lie. try to be understanding.
 
He could be afraid of losing his virginity, or it's possible that because you're more experienced than him, he's afraid of not measuring up to your past partners and so doesn't want to try at all. I say don't pressure him, because you don't want him to do something he's not ready for, but if you honestly can't handle this, then it may be best for both of you to break things off. But if you can handle it, and love him and are willing to wait, and he trusts you, I'm sure you'll have fun in the end.
 
Could be any reason...

Religion, tradition...respect...

If you don't like it, break up with him and date someone who will screw you all night every night.

So it's a mismatch. You two aren't compatible sexually.

Big deal. It's not rocket science.
 
ahhh he might think that he will like it so much that he will go the whole way and he might be trying to wait till marrage or something,
talk to him about it or he may think thats hes no good at sex even though he hasnt had it before and doesnt want to dissapoint you or get Embarrassed if he doesnt know what hes doing.
hope this helps :)
 
well, he may, like me be abstaining from actual sex until marriage. Fhking hell, some of the women on here are callous 8itches.
 
he was probably raped , probably as a child ........ don't push him. he may never be ready.
 
well it could be that he's really scared of disappointing you while having sex... if you think that's not it then just let him know that since he stops when you start to get in the mood then you just wont do anything at all in order to just stop the anger and frustration
 
His body is wanting one thing and his mind another. Maybe he really wants to keep his virginity until marriage?
 
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