My truck is under my ex wifes name, and it is parked in my dads backyard, she wants to send a tow truck to pick it up, can the tow truck break the lock and tow it if i refuse to let him get in the backyard and take it
If it's not yours, you don't have any legal claim to it. You can be a jerk and try to prosecute the towing guy, but it's not his fault and you know it.