Why does everyone contradict themselves on the topic of losing your

[Valerie]

virginity and whether you lost it or not? When I say that I'm not totally a virgin, the person looks at me funny and the response I get each time is "You either are or aren't", there is NO in between.

Then if you ask someone, "What makes a person a virgin?" Everyone gives the same answer as if it's soooo obvious "someone who has had sex".

Then when I tell people, I have had Oral sex, been fingered... basically every move there is EXCEPT penetration. Then people tell me I'm NOT a virgin.

What the hell is a virgin?????

 

[Abhishek]

Exactly what 'they' told you: if your vajj hasn't been penetrated by a dick you are a virgin. End of story.


~Fin