My wife masturbates while I am sleeping?

[Unregistered]

love it!

Its funny reading some of these posts. Some of you guys I agree with and some I don't.

My wife and I met when she was young (19). she is now 27 and is an avid masturbation fan. When she was young she wouldn't do it much. apparently she never had a desire during her teenage years to explore her body and wasn't really much of a fan of masturbating. As the years have gone on though she has become increasingly more sexual and more interested in masturbating. Personally, I love it. I tell her to do it whenever she wants, however she wants. She'll do it while I watch a lot before we have sex. She'll do it now at random times like when I'm outside mowing the yard. She'll do it in the shower or right after a shower. I stay up late and she goes to bed early. She has told me that she masturbates sometimes when she goes to bed early. I know this is true because I've listened outside the door before and heard her doing it. This brings me to my favorite way that she does it and that is when she thinks that I'm asleep.

It is so hot when she does it like that. She will usually wait until I am asleep and then start removing her pajamas. This is usually what wakes me up but I pretend to be asleep. She'll usually start of by playing with her breasts and then slide her and down to masturbate. It is so hot because she tries so hard to be quiet. She'll go at if for about 5 minutes or less (she cums really fast). Usually she's on her back and will crane her head up and shake the bed a little and breathe heavily when she cums. I love watching her do it when she thinks I'm asleep. I look forward to it. We have a great, healthy sex life but I love that she loves to wank so often, it is a big turn on for me.

 

[Unregistered]

Glad i came her the whole thing worries me.

 

[Unregistered]

oh yeah been there guys. she sometimes is at it so strong i can hear her almost out of breath. the sound of the juices makes me wanna go nuts. i can hear her softly moaning til it rises to almost a cry to orgasm. faster her hand will move till i cant stand it any more. she is fast asleep and not aware i'm enjoying this show. she will actually play with her nipples as her other hand makes love to her. i get so hard as i stroke my++++ it it almost unreal. sometimes i can suck her nipples and then roll over to make love before she awakens. even if she does she enjoys it.

 

[Unregistered]

I did a search on this because I thought my wife was doing this one night and I have kept an eye on it since that night. It happens maybe 1 to 2 times a week that I know of. Just in the last week or so I have absolutely confirmed that she is masterbating. At first I was not sure as it is very subtle and quiet, but the last couple of times I've heard her climax and she is definitely awake during all of this. During my research I found some women do this at night while they are sleeping so I was not sure at first. Well, last night she must've had a really good orgasm because she moaned really loud but tried to cover it up with a cough.

To be honest, I'm very turned on by this..... we have sex enough where it doesn't bother me. I'm to the point where I think she wants me to catch her. Not sure yet. She has masterbated for me before as part of foreplay, but she always wants me to finish the deal when she does.

So far I've always pretended I was sleeping, but like I said it seems to have become more intense and I think she wants me to notice.

I will post more later.

 

[happyNights]

Hello this post is so exciting . It happens the same with my fiancee , she's 30 and I'm 43.
The exact same thing , I pretend I'm sleeping and she starts to rub

I just want to add that as I get used to it , and can control my breath and not to wake her up
I sometimes have managed to get closer to her right hand with my left hand slowly towards.
her right hand till I almost touch it and can feel it rubbing under the cover ...

, this is the ultimate stage of the excitment that all this situation has taken me into
For some time I've been into this and NEVER talked about I to her .
Despite all this training sessions jejejeje , every single time my heart go out of control and
I barely can control my breathing ....

My strategy is not to screw it and give it up that I know everything ,
and from time to time every let's say two or three nights interval and I like fake
I wake up spontaneously , go to bathroom quick and come back , then
I go like slowly towards her , touch her in some way to show I'm interested and when she approaches
I got so out of control and the sex is soooo crazy with me like an animal desperately kissing her like it was my firt time
We never like talk about it , its like a secret I don't know she maybe thinks that
I now it , so I try really hard to control myself so she is really confident that I don't
Know nothing about it , because this is so marvelous I don't want to loose it never.

So my advice is play the game , it will be a lot of fun

 

[Unregistered]

Update from my earlier post #24:

My wife does this both lying on her stomach or on her back. I don't think she realizes it but she shakes the bed quite a bit during her thing. I've also felt her snuggle up next to me a couple of times while doing it. That alone has woken me up and I enjoyed everything after that!!

I've not only heard her moan quietly a couple of times but I've also heard her actually rubbing her pussy.

I still cannot say anything to her...She would be embarrassed if she knew that I knew. Like I said in a previous post she has masturbated for me before but she always wants me to finish the job.

For those of you concerned about this behavior I wouldn't be unless you suspect something like cheating. I don't think that at all.... I'm almost positive this is a stress relief for my wife. Sometimes she has trouble sleeping because of work and I think this helps her.

 

[traccy]

I still cannot say anything to her...She would be embarrassed if she knew that I knew. Like I said in a previous post she has masturbated for me before but she always wants me to finish the job.

 

[Unregistered]

LOL put the pieces together you losers. Your wives are masturbating while you sleep because you suck in bed.

 

[Unregistered]

wow. your story sounds exactly like mine. I kinda wish it didn't. It confirms my suspicions. I do the same thing. I just lay there quietly with my heart racing wanting to say something; but feel that if I'm wrong it will cause drama. I not sure what to do. I have a nice size member so I figured I was satisfying her; but maybe not. Oh well!

I know, why masturbate when your partner is keen to be involved? I notice a previous comment about sex being complicated and a quicky on your own serves as a bit of a release, I understand this but surely if you've got the horn its better to share?

 

[Unregistered]

LOL put the pieces together you losers. Your wives are masturbating while you sleep because you suck in bed.

What a dickhead response, I bet you're in your 20's and without a clue to the bigger picture:you are looser:

 

[Unregistered]

My wife started this masterbation thing about 4 weeks ago. She started her seasonal job 90 days ago. She lessened her sex with me when she started the job. I am 64 she is 52. I think she masters to a guy at work...not me. Use to have great sex. Now she claims she only can take it every other day. WTF...use to be my soul mate

 

[Unregistered]

my wife masterbates while i am alseep

here is a answer from a wife lol i do the same thing once in a while. we women just need that release to sleep at times and not to say anything bad about my husband or men but we just know what feels good and don't want to have sex for that release. as for some not admitting it . it is embarrassing . plus we don't want you to get a complex or anything.

 

[JerkOffJane]

many women masturbate at night as it helps them fall right to sleep. thats all it is. having partner sex is more takes more time, is messy, requires you get up to clean up (pee to prevent a yeast infection) etc... a quicky hand stroke lets her orgasm and get those endorphins moving throughout her whole body and brings on that sleepy feeling. iIt is not a commentary on your sex skills or your sex lives- she just wants to fall asleep faster!

I found this post by accident doing some other research and am amazed by all the coments that none of you figured this out.

I work as a professional sex worker and guys cum with me all day and often I masturbate right along, but even if I orgasm 9-10 times in a day, when i climb into bed I watch Jay Leno, maybe read and most often do some finger play, cum and vrmoom to sleep land.

Many men masturbate in addition to having sex with their partner - I would estimate MOST do. And many love to take that nap just after. sleep after orgasm is a natural physiological part of all of our bodies - men and women!

it is difficult to be open and honest with our partners many times - the shame of masturbating is a societal issue - where it is somehow not socially acceptable. that is silly but realisty. But in your own personal lives honesty enhances your sex life, doesnt inhibit it. Sharing with each other the truth about your masturbation habits is a great way to grow your sex life. But, sharing is often difficult - rather than accusing your wife and saying - Hay i know what you are doing, put the onus on yourself... say "honey I cant fall asleep, going to jerk off to help me"

I get lots of callers who call me with their wives and some wives who call to learn jerking off techniques -it only enhances their sex life

 

[Unregistered]

I guess I'm a slow learner, because it took me years to figure this out. At first our sex life was fantastic, but I had relied on masturbation before our marriage and continued it, in addition to our sex. I also liked to masturbate in her presence. She would constantly complain and try to shame me about it, but I continued. This went on for a few years, then she quit giving oral sex and became like a corpse during sex; I actually felt crummy after sex, like I was making her do something she didn't want to do. I went from the trifecta, sex, oral sex, masturbation down to just masturbation.
She would occassionaly rub me to the point I could finish by masturbating, but that became more and more infrequent. I began asking for what had been freely given before. For several years she has not given me oral sex and nearly stopped touching me. Since she went through menopause, sex is virtually impossible because of the dryness and she is insulted if I mention lubricant. I had nearly given up on sex and resigned myself to masturbation only, while I carressed her, lying beside her in bed. I began to suspect my wife was masturbating, too because she would spend long hours in the bathroom. She's very cold natured and said she was going to the bathroom to warm up. I thought nothing of it until recently when I saw her coming from the bathroom naked after one of these sessions. I began noticing more and could hear occassional moans. She's clostrophobic and never shuts the door all the way, but yesterday she left the door ajar enough that I was able to peep in. I saw her naked with her hand between her legs with her t-shirt over her hands. I opened the door slightly and noticed she was asleep. I thought of an excuse to wake her and opened the door so she could see me, and called to her. As she awoke, she quickly jerked her hand away from her vagina, but I believe she knows I saw something. These bathroom sessions have been going on for a year.
Thinking back, I realized she had also totally quit criticizing me about masturbation over the past year and seemed to accept it, apparently because she had taken it up. I virtually insisted on giving her oral sex last night,taking a long time and being especially gentle. She commented on it several times.
I am so glad I came to this post, because I was about to tell her I had seen her and demand she masturbate with me. I am also glad that she does masturbate, because I thought she had no interest in sex (which she denies).
I believe my path is to somehow move her from the bathroom to the bed and then find her patterns and try to eventually coax her into masturbating with me and/or restart our sex life. I am going to try to listen and notice her responses.
Thanks again, but I would like to read some success stories!

 

[Unregistered]

My wife does it too....spread her legs and rubs her clit....almost every night! I love it and it gets me very excited.....sometimes I also rub myself but unfortunately I cannot cum otherwise I'd mess up the bed.......that sucks!!!!!

 

[Unregistered]

Pretty common actually....

No biggie.....

Some women for some weird reason have a snoring fetish, and they LOVE seeing men and women, sleeping and snoring.

I know this by heart because.... guess what, my girlfriend is one of them. There's nothing in this world that turns my girl more than watching me snore, or even more so.... girls on youtube (she doesn't know I know she masturbates to snoring videos on youtube)

Anyhow, i think its quite normal, i dont have a problem with it, and though it was kinda weird at first when she confessed it a year ago.... i'm used to it now, and I admit It turns me on that she has this fetish.

 

[Unregistered]

Exciting and satisfying

My wife and I have masturbated together for years and we both love it. It's become our favourite way to have sex. We usually do it together in bed but ocassionaly we've done it solo if the other doesn't feel up to it. We have the freedom and understanding to do this.

We also like to face each other at opposite ends of our settee so we can enjoy watching each other. My wife loves to see a man handling himself and I've acquired a fantastic collection of film clips of men masturbating for her. Strangly she only likes to see a man's bits with his hand in fast purposeful action and doesn't like to watch a film if the man's face can be seen. she also doesn't like things too messy or gross - just tasteful masturbation. When we put these films on it isn't long before we start to play with ourselves or each other. After watching the first two or three my wife will start to rub herself with her fingers with a purpose, then really fast and furious, finally she'll reach for her vibrator, turn it up to max and hold it on her clitoris until she has a wonderful orgasm. This always gets me going and I nearly always ejaculate at the same time. Sometimes she wants more vibrations and rubs her vibrator back and forth over her clitoris at the same time.

We are only here once.

 

[Unregistered]

ewwwww

my ex husband would do the same thing...its disgusting
go to the bathroom.
maybe she wants you to wake up and touch her, or maybe shes just sick in the head. who does that laying next to someone while their sleeping. its like your dog that shits in your shoe then watches while you put it on...some weird mind shit.

 

[Unregistered]

wow , this has been a great thread to read , After 21 years of marriage , I'm just now finding out that my wife plays with herself when she thinks I'm sleeping , I', so hooked on it that I too "fake sleep" to catch her , my heart races like crazy , but I only manage to catch her like once a week or so , because I really do fall asleep very fast, I will not mention a word about it because I'm kinda enjoying it because she never tells me no went I'm looking for sex

 

[Unregistered]

I've just discovered (for about three weeks) my wife doing it after 12 years of marriage, she thinks I'm asleep and bang - it starts... frankly it's not a turn on at all. Especially since she rejects advances and then proceeds without me. I haven't had a full eight hours sleep since it started. I lay there listening and feeling the bed move. It's the ultimate insult - it screams to me that I'm not good enough. If that's the case she should tell me to my face so I can move the fuck on... I'm tired of the mind games.