When we first began dating there was little to no arguing. If she knew i wrote this she would probably get very angry at me again. The question I am getting at is : is there a way to avoid the arguing. I have already told her i don't have the time to argue, but she persists. She is constantly trying to catch me talking to other girls. A telemarketer called and she pushed the phone against my face and said who is she. Before i ever get a chance to explain she gets loud very loud I can't even respond because she never gives me the chance to. She says she does but she doesn't pay attention enough to notice it. I work I go to school and I try to get time in with my daughter with her complaining shes bored and its my job to entertain her. I really have no idea what to do with her I said counseling and she got angry, and i suggested therapy which got her more angry than before. She says she is bored but doesn't want to go hang out with my friends at parties (get togethers) and other functions. She won't work out with me either. Just complain complain complain and everything is my fault.