Im 19. and I went to school with him, hes my age. we didnt exactly know eacother, he friend requested me on myspace and I had no clue he was gay. we talked and decided we wanted to get together to have a first date. I know I need to be safe, but what do I do? hes coming to my house tommorrow. he lives like 5 mins. away. do I hug him when I open the door? do I shake his hand, WHAT do I do? please help, on safety and advice through the start and finish of the date, and any rules I might not know about.