meet other homosexual men? I am in the process of coming out as a homosexual and really want to go on an all gay cruise. I think it would be a great way to meet other gay men. What are these cruises like? I've heard they sometimes have themed parties with a certain type of dress. I'm really into spandex and would love to attend a spandex party where all the guys are wearing shiny tights and bike shorts and dirty dancing. Are gay cruises a good way to meet other gay men? I'm not really looking for a relationship, I'm only going for the sex. Do they have shops that sell sexual materials geared toward gay men? How about the cruise ship employees? Are they mainly male or female? Are the employees gay friendly?