At random I have these thoughts they flash on my mind all the time. I am 20 and its really hard being a gaming nerd who is white and hasn't got laid by a woman yet. It really blows. I used to be pissed off about having these gay urges since I was 12 but I said"screw it" and just moved on. But I am nervous about having these thoughts while out in public. Even though its in my mind and not coming out my mouth I still find it embarrassing. I have no intentions of getting a boyfriend, it would be the ultimate taboo and also just be baiting myself for harassment. So I don't like thinking about naked men or that stuff, even though I guess I like it, point being I try blocking it and no results. My main concern I never touched upon last time was my parents. My dad and I kinda talked about it, I dodn't outright say I was gay or bi. But I think he took the hint. My mom found out some stuff and she is just throwing your not gay gay gay. I love my parents. They are respected registered nurses and have their own company. So they aren't bad people. But I don't know what to do
my dad actually doesn't care what I am, its my mother I am worried about.
@ James well I kinda want to make those thoughts a reality. It's just pressure and I simply don't have the guts anyone else has. I love women and am attracted to them. Just at ,y age I can't get my mind off guys.
I only watch gay porn now, even if a wanna see a woman now. It's hard to get that feeling again. I know porn isn't everything. But if I like seeing a naked gender male or female, then it's legit because porn is a safe outlet for people who haven't had sex yet
my dad actually doesn't care what I am, its my mother I am worried about.
@ James well I kinda want to make those thoughts a reality. It's just pressure and I simply don't have the guts anyone else has. I love women and am attracted to them. Just at ,y age I can't get my mind off guys.
I only watch gay porn now, even if a wanna see a woman now. It's hard to get that feeling again. I know porn isn't everything. But if I like seeing a naked gender male or female, then it's legit because porn is a safe outlet for people who haven't had sex yet