Sexual desires are natural and God created so God will not respond to requests to stop what He created.Since pre-marital sin is a sin,the only good way to remove sexual tension is through masturbation which does not rely on pornography.
Well I'm told we're all sinners and will remain so until judgement day
So I Choose to relieve myself and take care of business rather then inflict my lust upon another person in the abscence of love... I don't advertise myself and I behave decent in public , my sexual urges are no one else's business
I doubt my god would send me to hell for being human
Who am I to tell you it is not a sin ? Human nature makes it somewhat confusing. Your option seems ok , I think. There seems to be nothing else that can stop you from relieving the urge,, is there ?....
I would calm my self and be patient and that's why in islam the woman are not meant to be without hijab.like those who wears little cloth the fking boil men blood. Controlling your self