Will you ever want kids, yay or nay?

[ReemG]

You didn't give an option for "I am in a serious relationship and I want to settle down and not have kids. Ever!!!". I want to settle down now, house, money, proper job will hopefully come however unlikely it's looking at the moment But no, definitely no kids. Jelephant summed up my thoughts quite nicely!

 

[jbreaforth]

enter epidural or C-section

 

[Justinsalmon]

I don't think I'd be allowed have a C-section (unnecessary surgery) unless it had to be done (diabetic!) and I've heard people say that sometimes an epidural is completely useless. Can they just give you a C section if you want one anyway? If you're not in a private hospital?

 

[adameozment]

Definitely. Probably within the next 10 years.

 

[FallinHard]

Hopefully yeah

 

[jimi4950]

Much to the disgust of many people, a lot of private patients do request a C-section rather than go through the birth, yes.

 

[SLbread]

I really want kids, after I've 'made it' in the world - I wouldn't have kids unless I could give them a great life.

 

[mickym]

I think they can give u a C-sec wherever u are if u request for one... I've never had a baby so im not sure but i don't see why not. It's a womans choice on how she delivers right?
epidurals aren't always compeltely useless, that must only be a couple of people who have one with no effects. Failing that, laughing gas and oxygen! get high on the birth day (with the laughing gas, not pot or anything).

 

[PurpleTactics]

The thing is, I like being young and free without any responsibilities and the thought of settling down makes me shudder. And if I were to ever have kids I'd rather have them by the age of 30. I don't want to be taking care of a teenager when I'm nearing sixty. I'm a month from turning 22, however, and never been in a relationship so it's not like I find that thought very realistic at the moment. I'd also rather adopt than have my own biological children. A couple of reasons: I don't want to be pregnant (this is for completely selfish reasons). Besides there's way too many kids abandoned/not wanted by their parents in need of a loving home. A child would not have to be biologically mine for me to love it like my own. And I don't want to take part in overpopulating the planet.

 

[ilikepie1]

That's a really unique way of looking at things, and really lovely

 

[JFPXIV]

I don't know him personally, we're in different years, but I know of him.

 

[Candigrl08]

I want kids when I'm 26ish.

 

[PatsyB]

I hope to adopt in the future when I'm financially comfortable (and more mature).

 

[LauraAe]

Yes, when they find a new way to get them out.

 

[GS]

YAY! but not before i'm in my late 20s/early 30s

 

[xserxresx]

:laugh:

 

[robortking]

I'm serious! I'm convinced that there was a fatal error in the drafting process when women were made, because that is most definately not meant to come out of there

 

[kingy]

I would love to have kids but I haven't even thought about uni yet! And I'm in a serious relationship atm, but who knows what will happen at uni?

 

[cqdmgy1140]

lol i pick out baby names when i am bored and waiting for something. i do want to have a substantial sized family as i grew up in one,however i think there are so many selfish people out there having children when they can hardly support themselves. i wonder about these really young mothers and by no means i dnt want to offend anyone i jst thought id take the opportunity to vent. also and again no offence (as my dad is also one) but i think its a little selfish to only have one child (obviously there are exceptions) but i jst believe that its harder being an only child specially when ur young.....but idk.: :eek3: