Guys, I have discovered that my bf of 5.5 years has been watching porn and looking up naked celebs, and other naked women online, but mainly watching videos online. There are sometimes he doesn't want anything to do with me, we live together so that could be it. We are both overweight, but I am by no means an ugly woman, just heavy. He also lies about it, but I know he does it. What I need to know from you guys is...
1. Do I need to worry about it?
2. Do you watch porn and look at these pics because you are sad your woman doesn't look like that?
3. Why can't you stop when you know it upsets us?
4. Would you be willing to throw away 5 years with your woman just so that you can continue to watch your online fantasies?
I'm looking for honesty here. I've been to forum after forum after forum that says the same crap about "it's a guy thing." I need more of an explanation. I want to know why I'm not good enough. The forums also say "it has nothing to do with you, it's just something he needs." If I'm good enough, why the hell are you still with me AND you need to watch this crap? To me, it's cheating when you're getting your jollies off to another women (whether her tits and orgasmic emotions are fake or not).
oh yea, I'm a sex fanatic...he gets plenty of oral, anal, whatever he wants...it's always him that doesn't want to have sex, not me.
1. Do I need to worry about it?
2. Do you watch porn and look at these pics because you are sad your woman doesn't look like that?
3. Why can't you stop when you know it upsets us?
4. Would you be willing to throw away 5 years with your woman just so that you can continue to watch your online fantasies?
I'm looking for honesty here. I've been to forum after forum after forum that says the same crap about "it's a guy thing." I need more of an explanation. I want to know why I'm not good enough. The forums also say "it has nothing to do with you, it's just something he needs." If I'm good enough, why the hell are you still with me AND you need to watch this crap? To me, it's cheating when you're getting your jollies off to another women (whether her tits and orgasmic emotions are fake or not).
oh yea, I'm a sex fanatic...he gets plenty of oral, anal, whatever he wants...it's always him that doesn't want to have sex, not me.