I was thinking about this yesterday, my brother is getting older- my mother fears it. She's not looking forward to it. When I was a "tween" I asked, and they handed me a book and said, "Read this." I don't want to do that.... it did not turn out well for me.
I was thinking about how I would explain it, but I don't want to be it just biology- I would prefer to explain how meaningful it can be as an beautiful expression of divine love, for it to have meaning when they find "the one" and not to just... "run around". Sacredness, really. In a spiritual sense, but not necessarily in a religious sense... not sure if I explained that right.
Honestly, I really don't want them to be afraid to talk to me- I want them to feel secure enough to be honest with me.. (I hid everything from my parents and I had my first child at 17- did not tell them until I was 5 months pregnant. Highly religious family.)
I was thinking about how I would explain it, but I don't want to be it just biology- I would prefer to explain how meaningful it can be as an beautiful expression of divine love, for it to have meaning when they find "the one" and not to just... "run around". Sacredness, really. In a spiritual sense, but not necessarily in a religious sense... not sure if I explained that right.
Honestly, I really don't want them to be afraid to talk to me- I want them to feel secure enough to be honest with me.. (I hid everything from my parents and I had my first child at 17- did not tell them until I was 5 months pregnant. Highly religious family.)