how do i know my cat is he or she?? Can i do the same as CESA MILAN IN DOG WISPERER SHOW????? my cat is 5 months old. my mother feeds it daily. i do rarely. the cat plays often with all in house. dosent go outside home.when the cat just born we took it from cat mother- cat mom is a home grown cat. cat often play with all of us in home and sometimes he bites not hard dosent feel the pain. but except me and my brother all in home feels very awkward. so how should i say to the cat dont do it. and how can i make my cat more friendly that. cox my cat dosent come often when i tell him to come or go so what should i do to make him come and go??? i want all the answers