After some convincing. I agreed to go out with a guy I'd spent a couple of weeks getting to know.
I thought we were having a good time, his friends and family seemed to like me (from what he told me). Then 3 weeks into our relationship I called to see if he wanted to something that night, to which he replied, 'uh, actually, could you give me a call tomorrow, I want to talk about us'
of course I knew what this meant and I brought it up that second. Basically he didn't want to see me anymore because "I was in the way" and that he is a "loner"
Is up to 4 evenings a week to much for a fresh relationship? I guess I just expected that we'd want to be a part of each other's lives. If it is, I guess I'm just used to fully sharing my life with a partner.
Do I adjust what I want out of a relationship because it is unreasonable and not how people date these days,
Or, was it just one of those things and I should not apply it to everyone.
I really need to know these things so my heart can stop breaking.
I thought we were having a good time, his friends and family seemed to like me (from what he told me). Then 3 weeks into our relationship I called to see if he wanted to something that night, to which he replied, 'uh, actually, could you give me a call tomorrow, I want to talk about us'
of course I knew what this meant and I brought it up that second. Basically he didn't want to see me anymore because "I was in the way" and that he is a "loner"
Is up to 4 evenings a week to much for a fresh relationship? I guess I just expected that we'd want to be a part of each other's lives. If it is, I guess I'm just used to fully sharing my life with a partner.
Do I adjust what I want out of a relationship because it is unreasonable and not how people date these days,
Or, was it just one of those things and I should not apply it to everyone.
I really need to know these things so my heart can stop breaking.