I'm a freshman in college and all through high school i drove my grandma's old buick, and now my little brother is taking that car so my dad is gonna get me a used car and he wants to get me a 2005 silver toyota highlander (he won't get me a smaller car cuz he doesn't think they're safe) and i know NOTHING about cars... is this a good car? are they considered attractive? will i look ridiculous driving such a huge car? thanks!