helplesslydevoted
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You are wrong here. I've read history books. I've talked with WWII historians. And I grew up with parents who survived the camps. I can tell you without the shred of a doubt, that unless someone has lived it, they just cannot understand it.
And while not anywhere near the same kind of experience, it is also true of parenting. I read everything I could before my first chiold was born. My older sister had a kid when I was 20 and I took care of him once in a while. I've had pets. I can tell you that I was nowhere near prepared for parenthood. Nothing can make you understand the bond. I've been in a room full of crying infants, does not bother me. Then mine started crying. I could pick that up instantly and know what he needed. Those are things you can read about. You can think you understand. But they are so viceral, that until you've experienced it, you have no idea.
And while not anywhere near the same kind of experience, it is also true of parenting. I read everything I could before my first chiold was born. My older sister had a kid when I was 20 and I took care of him once in a while. I've had pets. I can tell you that I was nowhere near prepared for parenthood. Nothing can make you understand the bond. I've been in a room full of crying infants, does not bother me. Then mine started crying. I could pick that up instantly and know what he needed. Those are things you can read about. You can think you understand. But they are so viceral, that until you've experienced it, you have no idea.