It was my first time so i am not sure what it is supposed to feel like when it comes out because i have obviously never used one. I put it in and it took me at least 15 minutes to get it in. I tried putting one leg on the toilet seat and that hurt, standing up and that hurt. I finally found a good position. I squatted down (like i was doing the country girl squat. you would know about this if you are from the south) and put the tampon in. It hurt so bad I cried. But I got it in. Then about 3-4 hrs l8r i tried to take it out an it felt as if somebody was sticking tooth picks in my va j j. Please help me. I tried to relax and nothing happened when i tried again. I also soaked in the bath tub and tried again..... nothing happened. Please help. I dont wanna go to the docter!!!!!!