my sexuality is scaring away my friends..?

[SadieA]

im a 17 year old girl..im a typical straight looking girl..i wear makeup..hollister..straighten my hair, u know. guys come onto me all the time but i usually find myself uninterested unless they are extremley amazingly hot.. ever since i was little ive always liked girls more..i just find them hotter and gentler than guys...i mean, i try to change but i really cant. ever since i started partying ive been able to hide this pretty well..but now when i drink i sometimes find myself coming onto girls (not everytime..mostly when guys tell us to hook up and stuff) and ive made out with most of my friends..and i say things without thinking..

now my friends have been talking...

it doesnt help that one of my newest friends is always flirting with me and sending mixed messages..how will i ever find a girl that wants to be with me and how do i know if they are into me ot not? i dont want to scare all of my friends off!!

this is hurting my reputation..

 

[Corrie]

You are attracted to extremely amazingly hot guys. Why would you hook up with a girl because a guy wanted you to? Who cares if you wear hollister? Why are you making out with your friends? Are they not straight? Have you been downtown with a girl? I'm sorry I can't take your question seriously. You sound messed up and it has nothing to do with your sexuality.

 

[dargonsilver]

If you're scaring people off by being lesbian or bi, congratulations! Those are the ones you don't want as friends.

Making out with friends isn't generally a good idea, though. It changes the friendship in ways that usually can't be mended.