Is this a controlling relationship..?

Dkgha

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He has a real problem with me talking to men he doesn't know.

He only allows me to go clubbing/to bars on special occasions.

He won't allow me to eat pork, however, i used to be veggie and asked him if i was still a veggie would you give up meat for me since i gave up eating pork. He said he wouldn't, yet i am not allowed to eat pork.

He won't let me walk down a particular street becuase there are lots of men there who are lets just say...pervert. Yet i see many women, even strict relgoius women walk down the street, yet i'm not allowed.

If we're with his friends, and if i joking say 'shut up!' or maybe swear at him by accident, but in a friendly and jokeing way, he'll put me down or shout at me in front of his friends, when even his friends sometimes tell him to stop talking to me like that.

I could go on...

Does all this mean he doesn't trust me/respect me/love me?

We've been together for 3 yrs and i haven't done anything to him
 
I would class this as a controlling relationship, yes. I think he will have major insecurities and is taking them out on you but to be honest he just sounds like a world class c**t. Why are you with him?
 
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