Is it true that most women lose their sex drive, right after getting married ?

["helloworld"]

HELL NO! U gotta be kiddin....right???I will have been married for a year this Sept. and there ain't been no slowing of any kind so far. Maybe even a increase if anything.

 

[<ItSmE>]

Usually not "right after" but they do eventually. Here's how it usually goes.1.Prior to marriage, sex is wild and constant.2.A year or so after the wedding, things start to slow down.3.A year or so after that, sex is down to once a month, and is routine, boring and completely lacking in passion and inspiration.3. Husband goes to Y.A. and asks why his wife doesn't want to have sex as much as she "useta".4. 9 million men reply with "same here buddy"EDIT 4.5 (I have to be fair) 9 million women reply "she's probably tired, with her full time job, the kids, the house etc".This is Bull Dookey, as we men have all the same responsibilities (some more, some less, as do women) But, you will never, EVER hear a man say "I'm just too tired to have sex".5. Wife goes to Y.A. and wants to know what to do with her "porn addicted" husband.6. Wife comes back to Y.A. six months later "My husband cheated on me, what should I do?"7. Husband leaves unwilling wife for sexually active mistressMoral of the story, keep our stomachs full, and our balls empty and we'll keep treating you like a goddess.

 

[<ItSmE>]

lol. No women don't lose sex drive because they get married, maybe some of them just feel like they aren't obligated to have sex every night of the week.

 

[""Killa''B]

yes, they get to confortable in a relationship and the excitment is not there anymore like it use to be.sad but true

 

["Aly"]

Don't stereotype. I've been married for 8+ years, and our sex life is better than ever!

 

[>Jazmin<]

You would think so from reading the posts on here, but it's certainly not true for me.

 

[<3ILUVU<3]

Not true in my case. His went down. That's about the only thing we fight about is sex. I want it constantly but he's always tired. =( Everyone's different but from how I am and my friends usually it doesn't change.

 

[""Killa''B]

Off hand, No that all depends on way too many variables,all relationships differ, focus can wonder, if the man cankeep things fresh and doesn't let things go stale, perhapsthe couple can beat the odds and remember what theyhad together that brought them together in the first place.Open mindedness versus, thinking that the person haswon their prize so doesn't need to maintain and care forthe relationship like it was in the beginning, can lead anycouple astray. Maintaining a long deep slowly burning ember filled fire ofdesire and being there for each other takes commitmentand effort, or just magic. And with all there is in day to daylife trying to take that focus away from a couple, it sometimesgets hard to recall just what they got into with each other inthe first place. Experiences differ, but by and large, when the communicationbreaks down, one person may begin to see the other as partof the "furniture" or worse yet, no longer sees them as theperson they have become.It is not a wise move to pay no heed when the other half of the team is trying to get their attention to tell them about thehouse being on fire, and that they need to Pay Attention...and stop throwing gasoline around, before it burns down.People just want to be respected, understood, and verymuch heard and listened to. When the best she can hopefor is an acknowledging grunt over the morning paper, thereis much work to be done, and if he is smart, he'll pay thatattention during the time when it can make a difference.Because if either party of the relationship ignores the othershappiness, or total lack thereof, then they leave the dooropen for someone else to notice, and give what they aren't.Seldom is it ever just one persons doing,It's a team effort.edit:When performing a marriage, a priest I knew would throw arope over the house and have the couple to be married goto either side of the house and each take a hold of the ropeand pull for all their might... Then after a few moments of lots of effort to no avail, hewould have the couple both come to the one side of thehouse and both lay hands on the rope and pull...Telling them, to note this well: that divided their best effortscan come to nothing, but combined, there is hardly anyobstacle that they can not easily overcome, when they pulltogether, instead of apart.

 

[<~tPrincesst~>]

Definitely not right after. It just takes two people to play the game.