'Kay, so. Me and my ex dated for two years and eventually broke it off Dec. 2007 after it became long distance (I lived with my mom and he lived with his dad). We couldn't handle the long distance thing and it was a mutual decision to break it off.
Now we live in the same apartment building and since November have been together all the time. We're sexually active together and still both have feelings for each other, we say 'I love you' often and it's like we're dating. But we're not. We have no future together.
He's aspiring to become a rapper, while I go to college to become an animator. If his dreams are fulfilled, he will of course be on the road eventually and therefore long distance. No real reason to date if it's gonna be another break up eventually.
What would you do if you somehow, magically, ended up in this situation? I know it's a weird one, but how would you deal emotionally with loving someone who loves you but having no future with them?
Now we live in the same apartment building and since November have been together all the time. We're sexually active together and still both have feelings for each other, we say 'I love you' often and it's like we're dating. But we're not. We have no future together.
He's aspiring to become a rapper, while I go to college to become an animator. If his dreams are fulfilled, he will of course be on the road eventually and therefore long distance. No real reason to date if it's gonna be another break up eventually.
What would you do if you somehow, magically, ended up in this situation? I know it's a weird one, but how would you deal emotionally with loving someone who loves you but having no future with them?