I have a G/F, soon to be wife, that is suddenly being shady. She's been going places and not telling me where she is, she deletes her call list in her cell phone along with text messages, she has changed her passwords to her myspace, facebook, etc. sometimes she tells me she is with one person and i find out later that she was with a different friend. we have been together for 10 yrs off and on and i admititaly have some trust and jealousy issues. we've had problems with her being unfaithful in the past but she swears that now we have a child she is no longer keeping anything from me. Any I being over paranoid?