okay so shes also good friends with my buddy and he told me that she said she is ready to have sex cuz they were talking about me dont ask why. so shes coming over tonight ive never had sex and im not doing it because i just want to do it i really trust her and like yeah i want to have sex with her. So im going to make my move tonight its just im not retarded but ovi we will do a little foreplay im not going to rush things its just while were getting all intimate how do i initiate it she wont be like to scared off if i just take my pants off like once weve dun stuff right