How do you know if you are a lesbian or bi?

[Mel008]

I like girls and i sometimes like guys. But just coz i think a guy is hot i don't want to kiss him or anything. But i do like girls more... does this make me bi?

 

[SkillzCheck]

You can only define sexual orientation for yourself. "I think, therefore I am."

 

[Megan]

It depends cause im bi and I like girls more and ive even with a guy it's just hard to find a girlfriend from around whjere im at

 

[SalmonLips]

kiss a girl. did you get wet?
kiss a guy? did u get horny...and wet?

ur bi hun.
dont you be doin no flip-flops.
ur bi.

 

[Pazuzu]

being bi doesn't necessarily mean like having to like both exactly the same. Im pretty much in the same situation only reverse

 

[funsized07]

you shouldnt label yourself anything. even though im heterosexual i still think its better not to be labeled. but im guessing if your attracted to boys in any type of way then your considered bi.

 

[JaredM]

It's not an either-or thing. You may gravitate towards women, but you may still be bisexual. I like to think of it as a continuum. One one side you have people who are mostly gay or lesbian, maybe even 100% and on the other end, you have people who are mostly straight, but in the middle you have everyone else. I sometimes wonder if most people are somewhere in the middle. You are on the side closer to lesbian on this continuum, but it doesn't mean you don't like men.

 

[poptart]

I give up with answering these questions.

Honey, just go with the flow. Don't worry about labeling yourself.