I really need to lose 64 pounds by June 15th, 2011 because I want to wear a bikini for my friend's pool party and I would need a few days to pick one out. I am 14 and 189 pounds and I know its sounds gross but I have an over hang belly I want to be toned mostly in the arms, thighs, hips, but, and especially my belly! I am a beginner to exercise and dieting because I have been a couch potato my entire life so I would want to start off with basic healthy eating and exercising then make it harder as I go along. I really need help and I want to lose all that weight by June 15 th, 2011. I am 5"4 so Im not sure. I will do anything to lose it except surgery, starvation, pills, or purging. Also, another thing that makes it a lot harder is my mom has put me on the school lunch program because we can't afford to bring lunches everyday. The foods are usually unhealthy ( pasta, noodles, mashed potatoes) how can I eat school lunches but keep it somewhat healthy? I also don't have motivation at all I give up easily. I love baking which makes things worse. I have a bad habit of eating lots of candy and pop. The only pop I really drink is Coke Zero or any diet pop. Will that effect my weight loss plan if it is a diet pop? Please help me! Send me a message back when you get the chance. Please don't leave negative, offensive, or innapropriate comments. Thank You so much for all the advice and help you will give me