Fair to at least ask my former friend with benefits if she's interested?...

Edgar

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...Or is this a terrible idea? Long story short, this girl and I were seeing each other for a couple months. She told me she wanted to be 'just friends' now in early november... but has since invited me to a movie (just a movie she said), a party she was hosting, and tried to kiss me and get me to come home with her on tuesday. Problem is I still more than just kinda like her, and I was upset at the time that she was essentially leading me on, especially since SHE was the one who broke things off saying she just wanted to be friends. She apologized profusely, said she just missed me but didn't want to hurt me and knew I would find a perfect girl to make me happy soon and that she's there for me if I need it.

Except since tuesday my week has gone drastically downhill. I had one friend die in a plane crash, bombed a test, and got a suicide note from another friend, leading me to report him to campus health services, get him detained, thought when he got out he would be fine but since then he's been even angrier than before and his girlfriend (a friend of mine who came to me for help too when he wrote the note) blames me for this.

I could really use some company right now. I know it might hurt me in the future if I get attached to her again but right now...

How much of a hypocrite would I be? And is this just a terrible, drunken and upset idea?
 
Does she know whats going on with you bc if she does she will probably understand that you need company. If she doesn't tell her. If you're looking to get with her i would say take things slow. The last thing you want is to become attached again and she decides she still wants to be friends. I think you should just honestly tell her how you feel.
 
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