think perverted things like guys? Naturally, I have a dirty mind, so I been told by many guys and girls. Most people find me very entertaining, for I am very open and can be explicit. I just love laughing and having a good time, and I enjoy making others laugh and smile a lot. It's kind of funny... just by some of the conversations I have with the guys many of them just assume I am not a virgin. When I tell them that I am they are very shocked and refuse to believe it. Let's just say I know a lot of things and have friends/relatives that talk openly about those things often. And I grew up with many guys as a child.
What got me worried is that some girls told me that it isn't very lady-like to have a dirty sense of humor all the time and it isn't attractive to most guys because they want a nice lady, not another "one of the guys" to date. But most guys seem to enjoy talking to me and get out a good laugh with me. Plus, it's a part of my personality, in a way. I like being able to joke about stuff. Phrases like "that's what she/he said" and sometimes making things more sexual that it is just makes everyone laugh and have a good time. Playing with food sometimes like licking ice cream in that perverted like way gets the guys going or playing with hot dogs and biting it lol. I am just so used to it I picked it up from guys often when I was young. Although some girls enjoy this and think I am crazy in a good way some others really get bothered with it.. a lot. Now I am worried that guys won't like me in a romantic way and only see me as a friend just because I can "act like one of the guys." Should I change up my personality? Be that quiet feminine girl that most guys seem to like, the girly girly ones who talks about fashion, cute stuff, and paint nails all day long? Do guys not find girls like me attractive at all? Of course I can be quite classy and lady-like but when I am with friends I can get wild and dive into conversation with the guys about almost anything--politics, life, sex, whatever.
Um, some of you make a valid point however I see a double standard here. How does making something like sex jokes make you a whore or a slut? Guys who make sex jokes are just guys--not players and such because it is more accepted among them? I just said I was a virgin. I tell all my friends I am, and of course they are surprised. I talk like I have experience when really I know many things. I have very high standards when it comes to dating so most guys don't even try with me. Sex will be the last thing they get because I prefer to wait quite a while for sex in a long term relationship. When guys get to know me in other ways they see that I have a clean feminine side and a dirty side in which many compliment me by saying that it's nice to see a girl who is confident in what I talk about and how I am strict (in a good way) as far as relationships. Seemingly they like a "lady in the streets but a freak in the bed"
What got me worried is that some girls told me that it isn't very lady-like to have a dirty sense of humor all the time and it isn't attractive to most guys because they want a nice lady, not another "one of the guys" to date. But most guys seem to enjoy talking to me and get out a good laugh with me. Plus, it's a part of my personality, in a way. I like being able to joke about stuff. Phrases like "that's what she/he said" and sometimes making things more sexual that it is just makes everyone laugh and have a good time. Playing with food sometimes like licking ice cream in that perverted like way gets the guys going or playing with hot dogs and biting it lol. I am just so used to it I picked it up from guys often when I was young. Although some girls enjoy this and think I am crazy in a good way some others really get bothered with it.. a lot. Now I am worried that guys won't like me in a romantic way and only see me as a friend just because I can "act like one of the guys." Should I change up my personality? Be that quiet feminine girl that most guys seem to like, the girly girly ones who talks about fashion, cute stuff, and paint nails all day long? Do guys not find girls like me attractive at all? Of course I can be quite classy and lady-like but when I am with friends I can get wild and dive into conversation with the guys about almost anything--politics, life, sex, whatever.
Um, some of you make a valid point however I see a double standard here. How does making something like sex jokes make you a whore or a slut? Guys who make sex jokes are just guys--not players and such because it is more accepted among them? I just said I was a virgin. I tell all my friends I am, and of course they are surprised. I talk like I have experience when really I know many things. I have very high standards when it comes to dating so most guys don't even try with me. Sex will be the last thing they get because I prefer to wait quite a while for sex in a long term relationship. When guys get to know me in other ways they see that I have a clean feminine side and a dirty side in which many compliment me by saying that it's nice to see a girl who is confident in what I talk about and how I am strict (in a good way) as far as relationships. Seemingly they like a "lady in the streets but a freak in the bed"
