Confused sexuality?

Cherish

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Hi i'm a 21 yr old female and i'm like confused. I have gone out with a guy but i couldn't become emotionally attracted. I have always had crushes on girls throughout high school and find myself looking at girls longer than usual.
I used to be attracted to guys in high school and think of being with them but that doesnt happen anymore. Now, if i think of being with someone, its usually with a girl.
I also dont know any gay/lesbian people around i can become friends with.
This is a big problem for me cos if i'm asked about my orientation, i dont know what to say...
 
If you are asked your orientation you can just tell people to mind their own business if you like-you're not obliged to answer.You obviously just need more time to figure out who you are.
 
You may be bi. Why don't you just go for people and not gender? You'll soon find which sex you're going for.
 
Sounds like you could be a me! Yay! I am bi, and I am really weird, I could get emotionally attached to only a few guys (a.k.a my screen name = D), but mostly I want guys for the physical part. I want most girls for the relationship. So, it sounds like you might want a girl for relationship and a guy for the physical part of the relationship. I hope I helped.
Bi Bi = D
 
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