I'm dating this guy who has a kid...the mother of the kid (they've been broken up for about 6 months, were together 3 years) found out we were dating and told him he had to choose between seeing his daughter or being with me. Like if he's dating me he will never be allowed to see his daughter... I'm 21, he's 24, she's 22 if that makes any difference...why would she put him in that position?