if you were told that you had a benign brain tumour and although you're not dying, it is very serious and could potentially kill you if the radiation treatment doesnt work and doesn't shrink the tumour would you try to talk and make amends with people you have fallen out with even if u had made mistakes in the past and they had said that they didn't want anything to do with you!? how would you go about approaching them and breaking the news to then!?