i hope that old geezers got mony... else wats some 1 still yung like u doing with him??? i wud get lots of life insurense on him an hope he kicks off soon... ur still yung enuff to enjoy life when hes gone...
Just think of what a loser a 44 yr old is to be chasing after a 20 yr old. Soon you'll be 30 and that will seem too OLD for him and he'll look for another 20 yr old.
Here's list of things that the future can bring:
-impotence
- his health issues you have to deal with pretty soon
-dying before you
-not understanding or wanting to participate in your age activities
-finding that you have very little in common like your friends
-him at 60 yrs old and you at the prime of your life and in sexual peek and he just can't keep up
edit: if you do get married don't marry until he takes a life insurance policy. You may be in your 40s and single after he dies, he should make you sure you at least have the money for a funeral and decent place to live.
Sorry for being so negative but you must have had your doubts yourself to be posting this question.
we are in this same situation only that i'm 22 and we have been together for 4yrs and married for 6months. from my experience i think he will give you all the love and respect you desire and problably even more. but you might have different sexual disires.
this is just my situation and i'm just sharing with you so that you man have an idea.
but then again, people are different and just follow your heart girl.
i cant really tell you much coz you know this open.
Age is, after all and ultimately, just a number. As long as you are both secure in the knowledge that when you are 60 and just looking forward to retirement, he will be 84 and already done with retirement and on the way out, then you know what you're getting involved in.
Pretty soon, he will not be able to keep up with you. You will run out of things to talk about because he is so ahead of you in life knowledge. I see him being happy but I don't see you staying happy with him for too long.
Don't listen to people who tell you that it's weird. A lot of couples (especially younger females and older males) are common because most females prefer older guys. I told my mom if it doesn't work out with my current bf (who's 4 years older) that I'm getting my next bf out of a geriatric home because older men are sexier and more mature! If you love him, it will only bring good, but he should probably pop the question within the next year if you aren't already married. If he doesn't propose in the next year or so then unfortunately, he may just be that creepy older guy =-\
There are a few possibilities....1.You'll stay together but never marry.2. You'll get married,& live happily.3.You'll get married & then get divorced.4.You'll break up & find someone else....No one knows what the future brings,but your age difference may be a problem,since he's old enough to be your father.if he doesn't discuss his feelings for you & plans for the future after 3 years,I don't think that's a positive sign.
I think what you're going to see is a husband who adores his sexy younger wife who happens to have a voracious appetite for sex. You most likely will have sex with other men since he will be experiencing impotence in his advanced age, but he will look the other way because he won't want to upset his marriage to the woman of his dreams. You could eventually work him to the fun by telling what you've been up to. Since he won't be able to do it as often as you like, he will get turned on by hearing about (or watching) the escapades of his lovely young wife. Just start by telling him your fantasies about the pool boy, the mailman, your personal trainer, or who ever you find sexy. He'll come around eventually.
(((what the future will bring for us .any ideas?