Meet this girl, on eharmony....?

[rkay74@pacbellenet]

and we have not meet yet, and she is already asking if I am looking for a serious relationship, how should I come into this first meeting? We live about 100 miles away, open to meet weekends but if things get serious.......Any ideas or suggestion's?

[GAGAN]

Well on the internet, you don't know if it's some 40 year old virgin or actually a girl. Just plan a meeting if you are like really trying to get into a serious relationship. If not then go to local clubs etc and find someone with similiar interests!@

[BabeHeart]

So be honest. She's not asking for commitment but if she ultimately desires something serious, and you do not (at all) then why waste each other's time? Same in reverse...if you are dating with the hope of meeting someone for something serious, and she has no desire for that in the foreseeable future, then no point in getting together.

If you are both on the same page, then it may be worth meeting and seeing if you 'click'. It doesn't obligate either of you to anything. As for the distance, play it by ear if you begin dating and things work out. I've known plenty of people who dated where they could pretty much only do weekends (and not all of those) but made it through a year or so and eventually decided to relocate so they could be together...perhaps at that point one or both of you would have to consider changing or moving your job, but that's down the road.

For now, if there is interest then check it out.