...anything about it? I was just wondering because I know a few people like this. One of my good friends is always complaining about her hair color and how she looks so pale and how she wants to lose weight, yet when I bring up maybe wearing a foundation to make her skin brighter, dying her hair the color she wants, or coming to the gym with me she looks at me like I am crazy and starts to talk about how she doesn't care what people think of the way she looks.. I mean it just confuses me that she always talks about these things she doesn't like about herself, but she doesn't make an effort to change anything.I have also noticed that she is not the only person I have had a similar experience with. I just cannot grasp why people do this. I mean why complain and do nothing about it?