As in, the dating sites?

I'm 35, and my mom keeps constantly telling me to go on these and see if I can find a girlfriend. Because my girlfriend recently broke up with me and I've been so horribly miserable and alone. But I'm scared to death of this kind of thing. I've only had the one girlfriend who just broke up with me. I'm not experienced with women in ANY way.

Has anyone ever joined these sites and tried them out? What was your experience? I'm just curious.


I'm out for a serious relationship. Not to just play around. I need to find a girl I can trust. Not a girl who I have to constantly worry about cheating on me (or one that's just after money). My heart can NEVER handle another bad situation. Although the situation I was in was nothing like this.