I live in NJ and really like the outdoors and to fish and i want to hunt but my

Bigham already said it join the boyscouts or get a friend that goes hunting with his parent see if his dad will take you along and go with him

Boy Scouts in America kill things? Wow! It's more fun than the English one. We just sit in mud in tents and sing silly songs.

I think you should tell them before going there with their permission that is teh right way. If they want to keep the away from weapons just due to your age then they are right and you should wait to use them at least until 18. I think in this way they will permit you to enjoy hunting.