How can I keep him interested?

[lucy]

I have fancied this guy that I work with for absolute ages and he's taking me out saturday night and I am terrified of scaring him off or doing something that will put him off. I know to be myself but that answer is boring so any tips onto how to keep him hanging on? (The last guy I dated just dissapeard and I dont think I did anything wrong. But I really like this one so can I have some dating advise please people?

[keithotzkie]

Hmmm.. Im not really an expert to this kind of stuffs but I would love to help..
My suggestion would be that dont let him feel your always clinging on him..
Dont overdo stuffs that might him to think your obsess with him or something..
Just act like you do when you're with your friends.. xD

[hua052011]

Hi,

Thanks very much for this comment. It help me to think about my ideals.

Tks again and pls keep posting.

[keithotzkie]

Hi,

Thanks very much for this comment. It help me to think about my ideals.

Tks again and pls keep posting.

No problem..

[DREA]

Be positive and upbeat. Stay away from negative or depressing conversations (ex boyfriends, last date, $ issues, problems with other girls, etc) these can all give off bad vibes. Eat a normal meal but be lady like. Most guys hate when girls just order a salad to be cute, dont drink too much alcohol. Try to be natural and have fun

[briannat]

Aright thinks that scare guys off is in the beginning of dating you start talking about forever... big no no lol. Just keep it natural, talk about each others likes and dislikes and what both of you guys like to do for fun. You could also talk about what he looks for in a girl, stuff like that doesn't scare them off. If he aready doesn't fully know what kind of a girl you are tell him and make sure you really get that point across to him, that is very important and just like you said make sure your real and to not pretend like someone your not just to keep this guy hangin on
hope this helped you out good luck girl!

[ttMaRaHtt]

Yea ik the answer is boring but you really gotta just be yourself and RELAX. If you don't relax, and if your too nervous, then that's when you'll do something really stupid. Dress really sophisticated like a black short elegant dress and have your hair and makeup done really elegant, but don't go trashy and slutty. That's a big turn off. Make sure your squeaky clean and put some really nice perfume on and some jewelry too. Again, just relax and be yourself and you'll have fun. Keep the conversation going. Talk about life, things, your favorites, etc. Good luck!