Is it weird to not wait for sex until marriage?

[meme]

have sex only if yu trust him and he really loves you

[Susan]

Like is this like a real question? Like you know what I like mean?!

Before you even contemplate sex you must learn about how to practice SAFE SEX first.

[iplaymusicforu]

You say you want to "when you feel ready."

That's where the argument begins. What are the signs you get when you are "ready?"

I say (and you don't have to agree) that the signs for being ready and when you are emotionally and financially ready for mistakes that happen (even with so called protection).

I didn't wait for marriage so you can call me a hypocrite but now that I am older and married and practice what I have heard is called "tough love," I am firm on my belief that you should be very responsible when you decide to.

My college GF, who I lost my virginity to, worked for Planned Parenthood. Believe me when i say this......she was prepared. She brought all all sorts of different protections home to "experiment" on me and I was more than willing to help her "research" each one. We were double protected from causing pregnancy and sometime triple! (How could a woman get pregnant with an IUD, a diaphragm and me using a condom?)

[shamu5698]

When a person has sex it lets out a bonding chemical (meant for marriage), this chemical seriously does bond two people together. and in a setting outside of marriage it can be hurtful especially if the relationship ends. (which 98% do end after having sex unless you are married).... if you have sex with a boyfriend typically that just opens up your heart for heart break because guys like to chase, and well after sex there is no chase.

[Emma]

if you love someone you do it, if you don't, you just don't! Sex before marriage doesn't mean going with some random guy from high school. I think it's because you're still young and not yet ready for sex that's why you're asking this question.. When you'll love someone you'll understand

[JenniferWright]

I dont know anyone who is waiting for marriage. It's not that realistic anymore I don't think.

[Nena]

Do it when your ready and it feels right. If you have to constantly ask yourself if your ready, maybe you should wait.

[obsidian]

You should wait until your married, and some one your age should not be doing that, and no, it is not weird. It is human behavior.

[Abby]

ok im 21 and i lost my virginity when i was 16...it was in high skool but not with someone from skool..ok i probably should tell u to wait b/c im older but why lie, theres nothing wrong with sex b4 marriage if ur safe and not foolish...first lesson never listen to ur friends or the guy about sex...ITS UR DECISION....sure u can get ur friends advice but dont let them influence u.....

[Brianna]

if your gonna do it in high school just remember no glove... no love.... if not then your good too but I would wait till your completely ready and then go for it you only live once