my husband has snuck naround my back to watch porn on the internet?

[dhussain21]

does that mean he doesnt get aroused by me anymore? one time we watched it together he lasted like 4 seconds.. that was the first and last time .. ugh then i told him while i got in the shower he could look at it once more if he liked the movie to test him you know.. well sure enough i hurried in the shower and came out to see him watching it on the bed. what does that mean. i caught him a few times not recently but having viewed it while i was at work.. what does this mean? please help

[elvlayarvvi]

I think your approach w/ this one just wasn't right for the situation...

basically, if you don't like him doing it, don't give him permission to view it! be firm...

Porn is wrong, it's lusting after another human body...it's wrong...

if I was you, I would tell him it's wrong and never do it again, it's disrespectful to the marraige...

I speak the truth...

good luck...

[Robin]

My husband watches it all the time. He's got sooooo much smut on his computer in isn't funny. He says he thinks of me when he is watching it. YA RIGHT!!!!! Its what they do. You don't think there brain is in there head do you? I catch mine with his Mr. Johnson in hand and going at it. And he gets it mostly every night from me. LOL Get used to it. Its what men do.

[KingH]

Well married men watch porn for three reasons. It's either b/c

1. they are not getting any from their wife and they are compensating for it - I hope it's not this one b/c it's really hard for me to give you any sympathy. I can only suggest you open up more and become a bit more free. Enjoy it. You're married, he's not going to think any less of you b/c you enjoy being with him.

2. they just enjoy watching it - It's not much of a problem. You may be sensitive toward it, but it's really not as big as a problem you may think. If you caught it early enough he can stop

3. they are just addicted to it - this becomes a problem as it has ruined marriages. I suggest counseling at this point for you both. For you, to understand that it is an addiction and for your husband as he understands that he is an addict.

[Godless]

Nothing, he just likes it. Do not think it means he doesn't find you attractive, he loves you. Porn is just for fun.

[Drea 3]

Some men like porn. Mine isn't into it but my ex was obsessed with porn. If you are not comfortable with it I am not sure there is much you can do to stop him. Some men just love jacking off to porn.

[krandazzo1986]

OMG ENOUGH with this question!

men watch porn

its a part of life, its NORMAL

get over it!

[AwaraK]

It's normal princess!
You can't link his watching porn and his sexual relationship with you. No matter how hard you will try, he will find way to watch porn, coz variety is the spice of life and he is limiting his variety and spice only to watching porn, not f...king other women (if he is doing that also, it's normal-most men do). So you have to live with this fact, just tell him not to watch to such an extent that it somehow affecting his normal life.

[BabeHeart]

If he'd rather watch porn that be with you, be concerned. Otherwise, let it go and don't let it become an issue. It has NOTHING to do with his feelings for you.

Do a 'search questions' here for this EXACT topic and you'll see the various answers. No reason to be insecure about someone watching a little porn...unless it turns into a LOT of porn.

[whocj78]

Wow, I must say that I'm totally shocked that your husband snuck around behind your back to watch porn!

Are you serious?

Well, if you're seriously asking...

I'd guess that your husband probably enjoys porn... Also, if he's having to get "your permission" to look at it "once more" (so that you could test him), it sounds like you're probably a really controlling woman. Whereas the women in porn most of the time are not... Also, since you've made it "forbidden" you have probably made it even more appealing to him.

Your husband looking at porn doesn't mean that he finds you any less attractive.

I'll wager if you eased up a bit (by not trying to be as controlling) he'd probably not be as interested in it.