What do you do if you have not had sex in over 2 years?

• Mar 31, 2008

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My boyfriend wants to but I am scared. I haven't had it that long because of something that happend to me a while ago. It was not rape or anything.

 

• Mar 31, 2008

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you wait until you deal with your issues and don't feel scared anymore...

 

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If you are scared - don't do it.Alot of bad things can happen with sex - regret, pregnancy, miscarriage, abortion, disease.If you are not up for or open to all of the really great things that come from sex - don't risk the bad things.

 

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Do what you are comfortable withDon't do what you aren'tthat simple, if you want to do it with him, then go slowly and ease in, otherwise tell him that its not happening and maybe he needs to look elsewhere.

 

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Get some. When you fall off the horse get back on!

 

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I've gone ALOT longer then that so you'll live. Dont do anything you dont want to do. Talk to him if he cares he'll respect your decision and wont force. Good luck!

 

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you should talk to your boyfriend and tell him that you are scared i am sure he will understand if he really loves you that is. you should never be forced to do something you dont want to do. you should do it when your ready not just because someone else is saying their ready. deal with your past issues first then you may be ready for sex. you shoudlnt be scared anymore.

 

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you just do what u feel comfortable with if your boyfriend loves you then he will understand and just wait until your ready. good luck to you

 

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I think you need to say to your BF that "IF YOU LIKE ME YOU SHOULD RESPECT ME, IF THE SEX IS YOUR PIORITY, YOU NOT MY TRUE LOVE"giving yourself is not good. Men should wait

 

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dont push yourself to hard. if you are not ready yet then dont do it.its better to make sure about something you do or else you'll regret it. goodluck!!

 

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nice questing u askedand i got better answer for thatjust go ahead.

 

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If you're not ready again, then you're not, and there's nothing wrong with that. Don't be pressured to do it if you're not comfortable with it.That said, it doesn't hurt to consider whether you're ready again or not, as you're obviously doing right now. If you feel that it's something you want to do, but are still scared about.. consider whether you think your boyfriend would stop if you began but then couldn't keep going. If you think he would and you're ready to try and see, go for it. If you're not sure how he would react, then I would say wait until you feel completely comfortable and are sure you want to do it again.

 

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wait until you are ready. If he really likes you he will respect you for that. Sex will come naturally with time. There is no rush.And all bf's "want to" anyway.

 

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What i know is that if it was something very bad, you feel like u will never be ready again. But u have deal with your issues first. Leave the past behind and try 2 move on. But remember your happiness comes first, u can't make someone happy if you are not.

 

• Mar 31, 2008

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This may sound bad but you might have to look on Porn sites to get use to knowing what to do when you have sex! :-[Im not a pervert or anything but this is my only suggestion.

 

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In our country,young widdow women ,someme ,do not have sex in entire life after death of their husbands, so be patient and wait for better oppertunity prefferably after marraige.

 

• Mar 31, 2008

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Celebrate, 'cause my health w'd have improved.

 

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You can only do it when you're comfortable.At the same time though, you need to take a chanceGood luck

 

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If you're scared then don't rush yourself but, keep in mind that he has needs that he'll find someone else to satisfy. Not trying to be rude but men don't think the way we do so if he's being understanding now he'll be looking for you to be understanding as well.so if you want to keep him try other ways of being intimate.

 

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I am no expert at this but I believe you should try and sort out your issues as soon as possible.If your B. friend has waited for 2 years then believe me he is the right guy & REALLY LOVES YOU.Although I sympatize with you some respect should be given to him as well. Hope all will be good for two of you. Best of luck.