My husband has ED, and our sex life is non existent . He says he is tired whenever I bring it up. I am at the point now where I am just angry about the whole situation. We haven't had a good sexual experience in a long time. His ED has been a problem for about a year. We have tried Cialis and Viagra but they don't seem to work. He can sustain an erection for about 3 to 4 minutes and it is only semi erect. I love my husband very much but I am starting to feel rejected and I cry myself to sleep every night. I know that sex isn't the only part of a healthy marriage but I miss it terribly. We have been married for 19 years and we have 2 kids. I just don't know if I am hurting or helping or relationship