I had a boyfriend who was 8 1/2" (he wanted me to measure it which seemed odd like, dude, can't you measure it yourself?) and he kinda liked going down but I only came sometimes and I never came the normal way even though he could go for a long time but my new boyfriend is like 4" maybe and he gets really hard when he goes down and does it for a long time and I come a lot and I still don't come the normal way but I don't really care. If he just went down I'd be happy and sometimes that's all he does and when I do it to him its a lot easier than my old boyfriend cause sometimes he made me want to throw up if he put it too far in my mouth. Am I weird and does not caring about size but about oral make me a lesbian?