he was very close with his grandfather n he passed away last week... school... work... and simply not having time... were the excuses i received from a guy i was talking to... before he said he wanted a relationship but now he says he looks at life differently and jus isnt lookin for a relatoinship at the moment.... r these valid excuses? i mean i kno the death of a loved one is a big deal... but i still cant help but think i did something wrong... idk what do u guys think?