Im younger than my age on here, not going to say it because people will probaby frown down apon it. But to answer your questions from my experience.. Blowing his load on my face or my hands, i hate when its in my eyes but other than that its all good. I dont define this as kinky, to me kinky is certain fetishs and bondage type stuff. And if you really truly like the guy you will swallow, its not that bad. If its just a fling than spit it out.