after having sex with my partner which is always mind blowing, we were cuddling up in bed and he asked if i would right 5 things that i want from him in bed, but iv tried soo much with him already im happy just learning as we go, im only 19 and he is 36 which is probably why he wants to no what i want and what turns me on. how do i tell him i'm happy with things the way they are? i really want to no what he wants from me to so can understand where he is coming from but he wont say till i do.