Thread: Should I postpone my vacation for my brother's future wife's bridal shower.?

I made my plans before they decided to do the shower.

No. Send a gift, tho.

No. I missed both of my sisters in law's showers because I work weekends, and I live out of town, so I would have had to take the entire weekend off. Neither of them sent out the OOT invites early, and by the time I got them, I it was too late to request the time off.

Like the other's said, you made your vacation plans before they chose the date for the shower, so send your regrets and have a great time on vacation.

No, he should remember or know about
your previous plans. Just make sure you
have an extra special gift for her to open

on her special day! Have Fun!

Are you in the bridal party? That's the only I could think of that would require you to stay for the shower.

You've already made your plans, go with them. Just send her the gift you would have already sent with a meaningful hand-written note wishing her a fun filled shower. She'll have plenty of other people closer to her there, most likely. She'll miss you, but not so much that you'll create drama.

Are you in the bridal party? That's the only I could think of that would require you to stay for the shower.

You've already made your plans, go with them. Just send her the gift you would have already sent with a meaningful hand-written note wishing her a fun filled shower. She'll have plenty of other people closer to her there, most likely. She'll miss you, but not so much that you'll create drama.

No as long as you make the wedding

Not if you already had plans. Just send a gift.