Im sorry that you all feel that way. It's not true that it's all about control issue. I'm a mother too and I know how your parents feel. It makes us feel more secured knowing your child whatever age you may be is safe. That they just care so much for all of you to pay more money just for their peace of mind. When you become a parent yourself ,then you will realize how much you are willing to do, just for your daughter's safety. With so much rape, killing and abuse going on, i cant blame them from being over protective because at the end of the day, its still worth it for us because we parents love our kids. You are all lucky that you have good parents who cares.