Steve (my father) has been verbally and physically abusive my whole life now wants me too send him money. My self and my other sister have disowned him out of our lives for a year now. He is now having financial problems, lost his house, has no insurance, etc. he feels that we owe him because he has help us out in our life time. And i thought i could send him some money but i haven't been able too and now its back to the nastiness coming out through emails. None of his grand kids have anything to do with him because he has threat end them also. he told me at one time he wished i was dead. I feel bad for him and i kinda want to send him some money but then i don't...I don't want him in my life and i am so torn up i don't know what to do???